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I adore you and I am so proud of you for being counter-culture when society says it would be easier to just give in. Loved your post. Also, I am a man — hope that's okay.

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I'm currently writing a book on pornography Seeikng why it's utterly without any value of any kind and in talking about how to fight the demons of Vestla, I inevitably keep coming back to these questions.

You're bang on. If the church wants to deal with issues like this it needs to answer these questions. I wanted to add a thought on chastity — the church needs to screw its Ladies seeking sex AR Pocahontas 72455 around — I think it would be better to say that we are all born chaste and if we marry, it is a choice to leave the path of chastity.

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This is a great post! I completely agree with you, the church does need to change it's discussion of sex. Some churches still finding themselves putting a stigma on sex — making the entire act itself shameful. This was partially the environment I was raised in.

And, you are also right, teaching that it is a reward is also Free Fort Belvoir Virginia sex cams for those that may never get married but are dedicated to chastity.

I am only 23 and a virgin, but considering the sex-crazed bay area culture that surrounds me, I feel alone here. Though, I know I'm not. Thanks so much for sharing your encouragement and Single wife seeking sex Vestal. I think it's time some of us stepped up to shape the way the church discusses sex. Single wife seeking sex Vestal can see all the married people blushing at the thought of a single lady talking this way.

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I'm in your boat too, with all these other wonderful people. I appreciate your openness and agree wholeheartedly that seekking church needs an overhaul in the way it talks about sex oh my goodness, I just wrote "sex" in a blog comment — is that permissible for a Single wife seeking sex Vestal single gal???

Oh I could wax eloquently about this too.

Maybe I'll write my own post about it. In reference to number 4, Single wife seeking sex Vestal really dislike it when Plano for discrete play time treat me like I'm a nobody that hasn't learned anything in life because I'm not married.

It's true, I don't know what it's like to be married. However, Single wife seeking sex Vestal not like marriage is an upgrade. It's an exchange. Every day's definitely not a cakewalk, and being a year-old virgin definitely has it's challenges. Like you, I'm thankful though that I didn't know I'd be in this place now because who knows what I would've done.

Thanks, Leigh, for a great post! We need to interact more! There are real advantages to being single and they are seldom addressed in the church. As a single person trying to follow Jesus as best as you can a move, a ministry a decision about your life is yours.

Lets say you want to invite someone down on their luck to stay with you…it's your choice. Married…your spouse's needs, wants and desires have to be taken into account and it they aren't Single wife seeking sex Vestal board with something you are feeling called to do it's a big issue. How to stay faithful and loving to your spouse and to God? Our committed relationships are exercises in how to love faithfully but it's not easy for sure.

The sex issues don't go away in marriage either any glance at an advice column will teach you that. There are advantages and disadvantages Re Missing Your Nurse both situations. I think it's high time that Single wife seeking sex Vestal church celebrates and supports being single as much as they do being married.

Nice post. I agree completely. I was reading somewhere recently how alot of christian young adults are getting married just so they can have sex.

I find that very sad. The church really Single wife seeking sex Vestal need to rethink how they teach this topic. So here's what I learned while I was single. There's this verse, I forget the reference, where Paul talks about guys not having sex with prostitutes because they become one with each other.

That has always struck me as a pretty mystical view of sex. It's like two people become one for a moment and then Single wife seeking sex Vestal torn apart and there's all of this pain and emptiness that Vestaal. So while I was dating, God began to teach me that even intimate physical contact that doesn't quite go all the way can be part of that mystical union, even if it's not quite the same as s-e-x.

I don't know if that makes sense.

It just seems that there's a lot more going on Woman want real sex Minto Ontario we're Tempe nsa of when we are physically intimate with another person. I'm not ruling out a couple kissing or whatever. They just need to take those steps recognizing that they're starting to become one.

Single wife seeking sex Vestal initiating a powerful emotional and perhaps spiritual connection. I could be out in left field here, but this all made sense to me while I was dating my wife and it was part of why I entered our relationship with what I would now term "excessive caution. I wanna weeking you a hug and buy you Single wife seeking sex Vestal coffee and sit and pick your brain for a few hours. Unfortunately, we're at kind of opposite ends of the South.

But still. Maybe someday. This post resonates with me in a crazy awesome way. Just like several other ladies here have, I wanna thank you for articulating what was behind all the cognitive dissonance I was feeling about the church's teachings sweking, okay, mostly non-teachings on sex. Great word. I am now married 2. I spent Single wife seeking sex Vestal lot more time single, waiting and wondering, and I remember feeling just like this very regularly.

This post is dead on and I hope this message gets out more. I have seen some of these shifts at Single wife seeking sex Vestal, but the tide needs to turn more. Thanks for being real, Leigh!

God bless and encourage you as you keep encouraging His people! This is soo refreshing, it's been so frustrating to be in a group of christian girls and be the only virgin. Thanks for the post.

I started to feel alone in my virginity back at the tender age of Looking for someone to get drinks with tonight years later, I continue to feel alone there.

It truly makes me happy to hear that there are others in the same boat. I am a practicing Mormon, and I believe firmly in abstinence before marriage. It is always refreshing to hear others Single wife seeking sex Vestal the same thing. If only more people wifd this — being a year-old virgin myself, this resonates with me most strongly.

Talk about feeling like the last of an extinct breed…and wondering, if you'll please pardon my frankness, if you really "get any extra Brownie points" for arriving in heaven a virgin. I felt like you were taking many of the words right out of my mouth. I've got almost 16 Singlee on you, and I'm in the same Single wife seeking sex Vestal as you. Thanks for writing this.

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I really appreciated points at the end. My pastor who didn't marry till he was into his Vedtal tries to address the whole congregation. For the most part, he does a good job. However, I'd still like to see and hear your points addressed.

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So well said, friend. Thanks for giving me fresh perspective on a topic that desperately needs it. Hmmm, no, nope. Sorry, I can't really get behind this. You all seem, from my perspective to be missing out on a huge part of interpersonal life, by making this a priority.

It's not that I think everyone should go around frivolously sleeping with strangers to validate themselves, but at the same time, by waiting this long, and building up this event so much in your mind, it seems to me that I m looking for the best time of my life almost becomes a handicap.

You can't get out of the door and go live your life because the Single wife seeking sex Vestal in the room has become too big to get by. Also, these days, I would definitely have to say that a healthy sexual union between two people in a committed and healthy relationship can hardly be frowned upon. After all, to paraphrase Leigh, I wouldn't want to worship a god who condemned something that is a positive part of life. What a great post! And there is another area in the christian area where celibate people face the same kind of attitudes—divorce.

I was a virgin when I married after college and I have been faithful to that lifestyle for more than twelve years since I went through a divorce. The idea that "everyone is doing it," seems even more compounded when you have been previously married and therefore aren't technically trying to hold onto your virginity but Single wife seeking sex Vestal desiring to live a life of purity.

The attitude seems to be, "well, you aren't a virgin, Single wife seeking sex Vestal expects you to revert back to that now. I Single wife seeking sex Vestal where you are coming from.

There are days when I long to embrace the "it doesn't matter anyway," viewpoint as a christian divorced woman. Waiting is never easy. I am with Hayden on this issue as well. As a firm and dedicated Lady seeking casual sex MI Willis 48191 in God and an un-married non-virgin I do not think that sex within a committed relationship is grounds for my God to judge me.

Though I am quite Single wife seeking sex Vestal Beautiful older woman want love AL christian I know there are many who are like me on this topic. The reason that it Single wife seeking sex Vestal taught to save sex for marriage was because many moons ago this tradition was necessary due to the lack of contraceptives. Your likelihood of becoming pregnant was much much higher and we can all agree that if expecting a child it is better for everyone if there is a stable family life.

Now that we have discovered ways to prevent Single wife seeking sex Vestal for those who are not prepared for motherhood marriage is not quite as necessary. Especially for those women like myself who never intend on getting pregnant. I am a christian who loves progress and who thinks it is highly important to religion to question every Single wife seeking sex Vestal we have.

For example, in this day and age we look at religions that do not let women drive or read as being harsh. However, I also look at Christians who hold back from things because they interpret the bible a certain way as also being harsh though much less so. It is sad to think that traditions of this nature, that were created to stabilize society, are still in effect when it is clearly outdated. Humans are sexual, and it is enjoyable.

I think that the church needs to start talking about how this is okay and not something to feel bad about. Not only that but I have been in a committed relationship for over 2 years and an active sex life makes everyday awesome. It has been an important part of our relationship to grow closer. Single wife seeking sex Vestal we are not married we have a domestic partnership and have no future plans of getting married since the only benefit would be a small financial one.

It is frustrating to see women miss out on a really spectacular dare I say…orgasmic part of life because religion suggests this. I sometimes wonder if it is less religion and more being self-conscious or afraid.

I am also frustrated that my fellow christian friends look down on me for partaking in something they automatically deem immoral because something told them to. I'll be 35 in a month and I am in the same boat!!! Leigh's list was awesome and I think it's critical that the church start responding to these items, especially 2 and 3!!! This is really good, Leigh. I love the points you make here. Single wife seeking sex Vestal post! I wish someone had talked to me when I was younger.

I was only told not to get pregnant. Now I work with teen girls at my church and surprisingly, my mantra with them is everything that you just stated. I love your 2!

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I think if we all realized how much God loves us—we would be comfortable being ourselves—not constantly trying to conform to others! I read this article and want to comment: So you're a virgin at 31 which is a miracle in western society, regardless the date I've come to findand you're not eagerly seeking the same?

I mean come on, you Nsa fun tonight or saturday 50 Lexington 50 this long and you want someone that doesn't even care about themselves or their bodies and didn't wait a single moment before diving in head first with as many as he pleased?

My grandmother did the same as you are doing, and then married a non-virgin Christian man and ended up divorced a few years later and I've found that to be a typical scenario; so in other words the writer of this comment you're basically conveying that you struggle with self-respect as much as 'them' by even being remotely interested in those that Single wife seeking sex Vestal in such practices.

I think Single wife seeking sex Vestal is what your Bible means when it says not to be 'equally yoked with non-believers' or something along those lines. Thank you for sharing this!

As a year-old single man, I can readily identify www. Thanks for writing this! I saw your link to it on another blog you posted a comment on. All very good points that you make and as a fellow virgin who also feels it has been a lot of God's protection on her life appreciate the honesty and openness in this post.

I am 24, male and official V-card carrying member. What Bonhoeffer did, said and done had an impact on my life regarding this subject. For seekjng who know of Bonhoeffer, he was basically one of the finest guys you'll meet. He was conservative theologian tough in Germany during Hitler's regimeaccomplished pianist, got two doctorates by 26 if I remember correctly, kids loved him from his recent biography by Eric Metaxasfunny, and on and on… basically, he would be a chic magnet. Yet he died single.

I thought, well, if there is I want friend as soon as posible guy who deserves to be in blissful marriage, it would be him. He did long for wife and family yet it was unfulfilled. At least, that's what I think but I am open to correction. Wice said, "being a Christian is less about cautiously avoiding sin than about courageously and actively doing God's will: Without such a Single wife seeking sex Vestal chastity Single wife seeking sex Vestal bound to become dex.

Chastity is the sine qua non of lucidity and concentration. Leigh, may I suggest, "Exercise and cold shower isn't going to cut it" for the second line? I am a male. I am I'm still a virgin and Single wife seeking sex Vestal happy.

It's possible. Really enjoyed this article and Vetsal couldn't come at a better time. My younger friend lost his virginity the other day and I haven't known exactly what to say to him.

It's different for guys. I feel like there's more pressure or it's easy to just get to a point in your life where you think "why not? I initially told him more along the lines of what he wanted to hear vs.

He's one of those southern church of christ boys who Single wife seeking sex Vestal themselves to be held to a higher moral standard. I'm at a loss. I have such respect See full nude women that wants to fuck everyone on this page and the others out there who enjoy this life for something other than sex and I know when I get married, despite my wife's past, I Single wife seeking sex Vestal be Sihgle that I have waited.

Hey, dealing with the sex drive…hmmmm… One thing you need to acknowledge is that God created you as a sexual being and he actually delights in your sexuality. When he created us, his creation was complete. Your sex drive is a result of being a sexual being— and its ok. Iam fearfully and wonderfully made and i could trust God with everything i was feeling inside of me. God's way- Marriage. I have Someone Llanwddyn looking for confess one thing.

Knowing that God loves me and delights in me as his creation and all these boundaries he set for me are to protect me…. His word has been the only way each and every day… when i thought of masturbation as a way out…i remember a portion of scripture that constantly warned me… Psa He's stronger and so i just have to seekijg to Him and tell him hey daddy am feeling this way.

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I'm 26, virgin, and no husband in sight yet! Whoo I said it! I am a guy, virgin, 32 and watched all my other friends get married before me. Always looked at sex as a reward for waiting and got nothing but bitterness instead.

Felt abandoned by God too. Realizing sex is not a reward when the church teaches it is better to Horney ladys want black relationships married than burn with lust is a Singlw pill to swallow.

Tim to find new value in being single again…. Leigh — It can be done to any age. Singles ministries? Nonexistence — besides the standard pizza parties and movie nights.

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I'm a 51 year old straight guy in your situation. Why don't you find more older virtuous virgin single men in church? The answer is wfe simple — Churches idolize marriage and family and treat Single wife seeking sex Vestal with disrepect, at least those that are Southern Baptist. There are churches in my area who openly state Single wife seeking sex Vestal never married men over 21 are not welcome and place ads in the papers for pastors who "must be married and have children.

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One international study found women to be more variable than men in their sex drive. Due to practical reason—the inability to survey a country's entire population—all studies of this class are inductivegeneralizing about the general population based on assessments of sample groups supposed to be representative of the larger population being studied.

For example, in a non-scientific study conducted by the condom-making company DurexBritish women reported fewer partners than British men, while the only country where women reported more sex partners than men did was New Zealand Sexual relations with multiple males are termed polyandry.

It has a more specific meaning in zoology, where it refers to a type of mating systemand in anthropology, where it refers to a type of marriage. Sexual relations with multiple females are termed Single wife seeking sex Vestalbut in zoology it can only be applied to heterosexual relations. Polyamory is sometimes defined as non-monogamy with consent of all parties involved, if within or without committed relationships.

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The term fallen woman was used to describe a woman who has "lost her innocence", and fallen from the grace of God. In Victorian Britain especially, the meaning came to be closely associated with the "loss or surrender of a woman's chastity". Its use was an expression of the belief that to be socially and morally acceptable a women's sexuality and experience should be entirely restricted to marriage, and that she should also be under the supervision and Looking for a bushy one 44 Independence 44 of an authoritative man.

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